患有不孕症是生活中的一种不幸，它将影响到你生活的各个方面，这种感觉使你感觉到完全的不知所措，包括内疚、焦虑和悲伤。同时，想要一个孩子的想法会让你不惜牺牲一切。这种长期的对自身的思考和如何看待自己的生活的态度将在此时受到考验，并使你最终度过这种不幸。
解决不孕的问题是一个过程，这可能需要你暂时放开要一个孩子的想法，因为意识到一点是非常重要的，那就是失去和痛苦在生活中是难以避免的。
尽管围绕着不孕的情感和问题会以难以预料的程度影响你的生活，但是在处理不孕的过程中的每一个决定都将帮你解决它，而且你将怀着这种想法在你独特的生活道路中继续前行。
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Infertility is a life crisis, and it will probably have an effect on all areas of your life at one time or another. It is perfectly normal to feel overwhelmed, with surges of guilt, anxiety, and sadness. At the same time, the desire to have a child may fill you with single-minded determination, at the expense of other areas of your life - including your most personal relationships. Long-held notions about who you are and how you envision your life may be tested, but you will eventually move through this crisis. Because resolving infertility is a process that may require you to let go of your initial vision of bearing a biological child, it is important to recognize that feelings of loss and grief are common.
Although the emotions and issues surrounding infertility may surface throughout your life in predictable - and unpredictable - times and ways (at menopause, for example), the intense struggle you are facing now will resolve itself as you work through each decision in the infertility process and move along your unique life path.
